MY OWN MR. BIG
Mr. Big of Carrie in Sex and the
City is a succesful and sexy man, A great guy and a real charmer at
that but underneath all that success is a scared, commitment phobic
man. Who, just like every american guy that is so comfortable in single
life. He is emotionally mute which drives the confident carrie insane
at times.
I
completely understand it now because i have my share of Mr. Big.
Someone would think that a man so amazing wouldnt have a problem
getting anyone he wants, but it turned out, most great guys are afraid
of failed relationships and overtime, these failed relationships
cripple their need to completely be intimate with someone. Eventhough
their need to connect is unwavering, the thought of losing that love is
more dreadful than the longing feeling to be in love so they would just
not RISK it.
"When you’re young, your
whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to
be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you
leap and sometimes you don’t leap at all because there’s not always
someone there to catch you. And in life, there’s no safety net. When
did it stop being fun and start being scary?" ~Sex and the City.~
You
once said that i shouldnt be feeling and thinking the way that i am
feeling and thinking untill we actually meet. But now that we do have
the chance to meet? why are you slipping away from me? ~CLIOGODDESS~
